Paul Ekman, who has just passed away at the age of 91, was one of the most influential psychologists of our time, a pioneer whose work transformed our understanding of human emotions and the subtle, universal language of the face. With remarkable clarity of mind and an unwavering commitment to scientific rigor, he shed light on the profound connections between expression, feelings, and human communication across cultures.
Beyond his groundbreaking research on micro-expressions and emotional universals, Paul embodied a rare combination of intellectual brilliance, curiosity, and kindness. He never ceased to refine his understanding, to question his assumptions, and to explore new horizons—whether in dialogue with scientists, clinicians, artists, or contemplatives. His openness to interdisciplinary exchange made him a bridge between fields that seldom meet, and his work has touched countless lives, from mental-health professionals to those simply seeking to understand themselves and others more deeply.
Since our first meeting in 2000, during the pivotal Mind and Life conference on destructive emotions held for five days at the His Holiness the Dalai Lama residence in India, with Francisco Varela, Richard Davidson, Jon Kabat Zinn and others, Paul and his family have held a very special place in my heart. It is rare in life to encounter someone with whom one feels both an extraordinary intellectual affinity and a profound convergence of ideals, while also cultivating a deeply personal and cherished friendship.
I also became involved in a few scientific research project with Paul, which led to several publications.
Each encounter with Paul over the years was a feast of insight into human nature and a shared quest to nurture benevolence and compassion in every sphere of life — both in our own lives and in the lives of others. I learned so much from him and greatly cherished our time together, delving into the innermost recesses of the human mind.